Book Review: Permission to Speak by Samara Bay

Give Yourself Permission to Speak

In this episode:

Pam and Sarah discuss the book 'Permission to Speak: How to Change What Power Sounds Like Starting With You' by Samara Bay.

They explore topics such as developing confidence in speaking, expanding the definition of public speaking, the influence of pitch and voice perception, accepting and appreciating your voice, managing emotion while speaking, the power dynamics of speaking up, connecting with your audience and message, challenging traditional male standards, and reframing apologizing and offense.

They also discuss the importance of authenticity, taking up space, and using your voice as a tool to have a greater impact. The conversation explores the importance of emotional connection and the need for leaders to develop emotional intelligence. It also delves into the perception of female leaders and the false ideal of a non-emotional, disconnected leader. The discussion highlights the idea that using your voice as a tool is not inauthentic, but rather a way to achieve your goals. The conversation concludes with a recommendation for the book and a preview of an upcoming episode on tips for speaking.

Takeaways:

  • Developing confidence in speaking is valuable for anyone, not just those interested in public speaking.

  • Authenticity and emotional connection are important in communication skills.

  • Recording and listening to your voice can help you become more comfortable with it.

  • Challenging traditional male standards and biases is necessary for personal growth and empowerment.

  • Taking up space and using your voice as a tool can have a greater impact on your audience.

  • Developing emotional intelligence is crucial for effective leadership.

  • The perception of female leaders is often influenced by biases and stereotypes.

  • Using your voice as a tool to achieve your goals is not inauthentic.

  • Your voice is unique and can be celebrated while also evolving and growing.

Transcripts available at www.easiershow.com

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